David Bekham being a football mega star and Victoria being a fashion sensation, yet this dream couple has been together for strong 18 years and me, being just a random guy with a dull life can’t hold a relationship for more than 180 days. Oh the irony is strong af!
It takes much more than stardom, fame, and a fortune to hold a relationship together. If we talk about David and Victotria, they themselves describe their romance as “love at first sight” that begin in 1997 and got married two years later. Later they had been blessed with 4 beautiful children, 3 sons and a daughter that they so dearly love.
While most of the celebrity couples come with an expiration date and end up with a controversy, this dreamy duo seems inseparable with each other. Well no one can be like this drop dead gorgeous couple, but we can sure follow the tips they have to offer for keeping a marriage strong like theirs.
They Have Each Other’s Back
“During fashion week, when I’m working, the children will be in New York and he’s already planned to take them to museums, then out for dinner on Saturday night, so he is very good at that sort of thing, as am I,” Victoria said.
A marriage is a lot like a partnership except for the fact that it’s personal, not professional and there are emotions attached. It’s a two-way road and you constantly rely on each other.
They Offer Unconditional Support
“One hand cannot clap alone”. Same is the case with every relationship.
Compromises and constant support are the foundations on which a relationship is based upon. It’s not like you can support someone for as long as it’s convenient for you and bail out as the going gets tough. Either you’re all in or you’re out. You have to support each other through all phases.
They Always Find Their Way Back to Each Other
It’s about setting your priorities straight. You can be a simple guy with a boring life and still suck at relationships, and you can be a celebrity and yet rock your relationship like a pro. It differs from person to person.
“David and I both respect that each of us are very, very busy; we are both running big businesses, but we do put the phones down, and sometimes we just talk,” Victoria Bekham.
A marriage is unconditional but it doesn’t mean it should be taken for granted. We are all adults and we all have our priorities, but we have got to make time for each other. A reminder text, a random phone call, a surprise gift, care can come in so many simple yet brilliant forms. No matter how busy we get, we can always find our way back to each other.
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